Be Yourself

A plum once said "just because a banana lover came by I converted to banana,his taste changed after awhile so I became an orange the he said I was bitter so I converted to an apple but he went for grapes. Now I have changed so many times, I don't know who I am anymore. I wish I had waited for a plum lover to come along."

Because a group of people don't accept you for who you are is no reason to strip yourself of your ORIGINALITY. You need to THINK good of yourself(cause the world sees you as you see yourself,the world hold you according to your estimate of yourself).
Never step down to gain acceptance. Never change to win a relationship. In the long run you"d regret that you traded your uniqueness for momentary validation.
The group that doesn't accept you isn't yours.

What water can do,gasoline cannot and what copper do,gold cannot. The fragility of an ant enables it move,the rigidity of a tree enables it stay rooted. Everything and everyone has been designed with a portion of uniqueness to serve a special purpose.

In the history of the universe, there hasn't been someone like you,and to the infinite of time to come, there won't be anyone like you.

A friend in Jesus

This is one of those days i sit with eyes full of tears,wondering why people misunderstand me.
So i know it's human nature to act before weighing the options, to talk before thinking.
I know not everyone is as insightful,not everyone knows how to give the benefit of a doubt, oh! I knw most humans are selfish and think only of themselves.
I know the flaws but it doesn't make it easier to bear.
I just want someone to get the exact point i'm trying to make,not the one they think i am making. I want someone, anyone to look beyond surface and see the real ish,get the real meaning. I want someone to really see the efforts i'm making and appreciate me. I want someone to understand me a little more,to give me d benefit of a doubt when everyone else sees my wrongs.
I want someone to care without expecting something in return.
Definitely i want a life free of complications.
I want smooth,i want cute,i want free,i want Understanding.
Could someone care enough to want to know the very realest me?

Well,technically i might never find that someone amongst humans. Shoot! I'm not even certain i can be that someone to somebody else.
So even though,i feel terrible at times due to lack of complete understanding,i console myself with the fact that no one is perfect. We are all imperfect beings with lots of flaws but most importantly i'd always console myself with the fact that,i have that someone in Christ Jesus.
Oh Yes! I may not find solace and understanding in humans but i will always get it and more in Jesus.
It's awesome to know that he knows me more than i know myself. shoot! The guy knew me before i was even born. He is the one that knows my deepest innermost needs and he is the only one who can fulfil those needs.
The most beautiful thing about a relationship with Christ is, u don't always need to voice out your feelings,he knows you inside and out,he knows what u feeling before you realise you are feeling that way,he knows what you need before you do.
He is that someone that cares and loves utterly without wanting something else in return.
He is that someone that would be your friend when you are not his.
He is just an awesome person,too awesome too ignore.

Something to inspire you

Here's a little inspiration, a few things you should always try to remember. Here's something that can get to you stand up and not give up!
Well these "quotes" have helped me,so i hope it helps you too..

*Never give up,instead find alternatives.
-Find the good in every bad situation.
-There's always something to learn.
-Use all opportunities like its d last you'd ever get.
-The past is in the past,leave it there.
-Learn from your experiences n take them as lessons learnt and be better next time.

*Nobody makes a greater mistake than he who does nothing.
-"the journey of a thousand miles starts with a step; little drops of water makes the mighty ocean..."
-Start something.. Take a step and God would give directions for the rest.
-Beginning is half the cure.

*Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside the was superior to circumstance.
-Believe in yourself.
-Define yourself,don't accept anyone's definition of you-except God's.
-Never listen to negatives.
-Don't let anyone or anything convince you that you can't.
-Believe you have control over your future.
-put that little extra

*Control your destiny or someone else will.
-Change before you have to.
-Willpower and desire may not override talent but it continues to be the factor that causes people of ordinary ability to accomplish extraordinary things.
-Learn to attach yourself to people better than you,to hopeful,successful and optimistic people.
-Our imagination is the only limit to what we can have in the future.

**God will never give us more than we can bear or handle-whether it is possibilities or problems.

**Never tell God you have big problems,tell your problems you have a big God.
-Have faith.. Keep hoping.. Keep believing.. Pray without ceasing.. Renew yourself spiritually everyday..
-Always be grateful. Always remember to say thank u jesus..

Thank You Jesus

I don't have everything i want,
I have my share of ups and downs
There are so many things i'd like to have and like to do, there are places i'd love to go but i don't have the resources.
My life isn't a bed of roses.

At times it looks like there's nothing to thank God for
But then i looked around me and i saw people I'm cuter then, people I'm smarter than, richer than..
I looked around and i saw people who'd give anything to have my life,
Then i realised God is really with me.

Here i am, with two eyes that can see, two ears that hear, a nose with two nostrils that smell, a mouth that talks, i have two hands, two legs, i can think, i can write, i can type...

Oh! God i'm indeed grateful.. Thank so much and please forgive me for everytime i whine.

Lesson - no matter how bad you think your situation is, there's always something to thank him for.

If u can read this, say Thank u Jesus..
Thank him 4 d gift of life!
Thank him for safety.

Shoot! Thank him for nothing, just thank him.
As you honour him with thanksgiving, so he'd honour u with more things to be grateful for.

Females. We Strong, We beautiful, We rock

It sure does hurt when i think about gender discrimination,you know when able ladies are looked down on cause they are females or girls are maltreated by their male elder siblings or by their boyfriend,fiance or husband,like seriously this sucks totally.

Uh! I want to talk about the relationship abuse tho. I want to tell girls,ladies or females that you shouldn't relax and allow the guy you dating treat you like dirt,you shouldn't allow him treat you a property,you shouldn't be someone's punching bag. Hell No,you better than that, don't you dare believe when someone,anyone- be it father,brother,fiance,boyfriend,husband,friend,even mother- tells you,you're worth nothing cause its not true. You are something,you were created in God's image. He created you because he knew the males NEED You,he knew they cant do without us,the females.

Oh!  You have value,your worth is immeasurable. You are the owner,creator,designer of the home. You are the Mother of royalties,You are God's Own.

To all the girls out there who's in a bad and abusive relationship,Get out today cause he isn't worth you,he doesn't love you(a guy that loves you would NEVER HURT YOU,HE'D NEVER ABUSE YOU-Physically or with his words). Don't be afraid you wont get someone else,cause you will,you'd Not only find someone else,but you'd find someone Better.

If you been hurt a thousand times, don't shut yourself out, Let go and love again and again and again. Have faith,believe You'd find the one that deserves you soon enough.

For the girls who was abused by father,brother,cousin,uncle or aunt Please do not let it define you,let go,forgive and be better. Take it as an experience that can help people. IT has made you stronger,better. Forgive and be better. God is always there.

For those doing 'boyish things' keep at it,if its the real you,continue if you find joy in it. Do not let what people say stop you from doing what you love. Show them guys that you can do it better.
Much Love.
Be happy.
Females rule! Females rock!

I am me

I am me…
Joy.
What you see…
A decoy.
My destiny has things laid on a platter.
I choose me happiness for keeps.
So when you see me reel in laughter,
Know it’s cos there’s excess in my lips.

I am me…
In between.
Like a bee…
I’ve got no sting.
I’m a double edged sword.
So dangerously blunt.
I stand by my word.
An equivocal stunt.

I am me…
Pain.
I am glee…
Existing in feint.
I dissemble, dissimulate;
I shield, shelter, and shell.
While I my outward create,
I am me in my inwardly self.

I am me…
Who I choose to be.
I am me…

I miss you

-I heard distance makes the heart fonder
-I heard if we can beat distance
-We'd make the world wonder
-Buh i'm missing you soo much now,its making distance a very big nuisance

-My heart is soo Full its breaking
-I wish i dn't have to bear all this aching
-I miss you so much i'm hurting
-I want to see you so bad,i'm fasting

-My heart's so full of love i cant rate
-My love for you i'd forever reiterate

-Luking out of window
-Wishing on the stars
-But wishes aint horses

-Finish up and come back